Just not my cup of tea

We all have that one guy who looks great on paper but there’s something missing. No matter how hard you try to create the spark you just feel nothing and it’s frustrating as hell.
I met “tea and puzzles” a couple of years ago and right out of the gate he was everything any woman would want, on paper. You know the type that checks all the wish list boxes:

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I celebrated Valentine’s Day once

I did however celebrate Valentine’s Day once and it wasn’t that bad.
It all started with what was supposed to be a one night stand, don’t judge me we all do it, the guy was shall we say a “gift from a friend” on an evening when I was in particular need of male companionship. My bestie knew someone who was single and thought we’d hit it off so he set it up and well the one night stand turned into something more serious for a bit and we happened to be together on Valentine’s Day.

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Be my Valentine- a local gift guide

I’m not a huge fan of the Hallmark holiday that has us seeing pink and red for weeks in end in our local shops but there are some super cute gems that are handmade locally if you’re in the market for a swoon worthy card or gift.
I shopped Instagram and found these gorgeous hand crafted beauties that range from sweet and sassy to downright naughty.
Want to win over your valentine with a card you won’t find at the grocery store? Here are a few of my favorites:

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Compliments of the Chef

So I’ve had a long time love affair with men who can cook. Who wouldn’t really?
I always thought it would be so fantastic to have a chef who would cook all the time and keep me out of the kitchen.
I’m one of those who can cook but prefers not to.

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Love isn’t just a word

Most people just throw the word around like candy and often use love interchangeably with lust and the meaning of the word has really gotten lost somewhere in translation.

Most of the time people will say it because they think they should, they’ll say it because they think someone wants to hear it but do they ever really mean it?

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I have a huge secret to share

If you’re single you’re viewed as being flawed or damaged in someway. You get the constant, “Oh, you’re still single.” accompanied by the pity smile every time you head to an event solo. Maybe you come from a family who can’t deal with your single-ness and every family gathering turns into a discussion about how you aren’t getting any younger and you need to find a good man before you loose your looks and no one wants you anymore.

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